Parenting And Relationships

Fatherless Homes

I am the product of a Fatherless Home so I feel more qualified than anyone with a PhD to speak on the Subject. All you guys out there calling yourselves Players, making it an art form of tricking and deceiving young Women, only to fulfill your selfish sexual gratification. It’s like your only motivation in life is your Jollies and your Brains is between your Legs, whatever is in your Cranium is only Mush, dead flesh. You never take into consideration the destruction you will have created in going around Pollinating young Flowers, by giving them a Child, when you have no intention of sticking around to support and nourish the child. My Dad walked out on us early in my Life, Mom said he had a Gypsy mentally, in today’s Lingo, a Player. It’s all good following your Heart, but what of the life you have created, does it ever occur to you that your actions could be creating Mayhem for Society. Fatherless Boys like myself goes out of their way to find trouble to fill the void in their lives that you have created. I have been very unfortunate to have grown up and went to School with many Players, one of them made Valentino looked like a Boy Scout. Harry was the greatest womanizer(Player) I have ever known, he had a Woman in every State and in Canada. He spent days and weeks away from his Wife, you would think that he was a traveling Salesman, while she was Pregnant he was still out there Pollinating.

There has to be one of two Defects, your Penis is the Module centre of your Cranium ,or you can’t have any Brains to consider Venereal disease and the burdens placed on Society to take care of your indiscretions, also to feel the wrath of Rejection they lay on Society, all because of your moment of heat. Which brings us to Defect #2 , you are constantly in Heat,  you are no better than the Mutt in my Backyard that digs a hole under the Fence to jump the next door neighbor’s Bitch several times daily, calling yourself a Player, take a chill Pill, you are Testicles Driven, what is it about Contraceptive that you don’t understand. The Burden you lay on Society is Astounding, feeding, clothing, caring, Child Welfare and Juveniles Detentions all the way to Adulthood and beyond.

Children all around us are growing up without strong positive guidance from Parents, who are busy, distracted, absent, or who choose to be buddies instead of parents to their children. Statistics don’t lie. The Result of Fatherlessnes. The United States is the leader in Fatherless homes. The Results of our actions, according to the Father’s Manifesto: 63%of youth suicide are from fatherless homes. 90% of homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes. 80% of rapists motivated with displaced angers come from fatherless homes. 71% of High School dropouts come from fatherless homes. 85% of youth in Prisons grew up in Fatherless homes.75% of all adolescent patients in drug treatment centers come from fatherless homes. They are five times more likely to commit suicide, 32 times more likely to run away, 20 times more likely to have behavioral disorders. Did I mention Rape, they are 14 times more likely to commit Rape, 9 times more likely to drop out of School, 10 times more likely to abuse chemical substance, 9 times more likely to end up in a state operated institution and 20 times more likely to end up in Prison.

My God it appears that the ills of society come from fatherless homes, I grew up in a fatherless home, but there was only one Mother J as she was called, she help raised her twelve siblings and was Father and Mother to me. As a result of not having a Father Figure, I tested her every step of the way. Thank God she was a strong willed Christian Woman, she kept me from becoming a statistic. Furthermore I was a Latch key Kid, sometimes she worked overtime, sometimes I had eight hours on my own. I had the choice of hanging in the Streets for hours getting stoned, or doing my Homework and being productive in the House. Sometimes I blended activities, nonetheless I tried to comply with her wishes of staying out of trouble and the Prison System. Most kids in a fatherless home and a Latch key Kid like myself don’t cope well as I did, Without a Father Figure, they feel that they have no one to fear, respect and look up to so they run their Mother ragged until she gives up.

There was no giving up in my Mother, the only time she showed any sign of quitting me was when I was seventeen, on my way to be inducted in the Black Panther Party. Dressed in Military Fatigues and a green Beret a Blind Man could read between the lines. She said, if you do what I think you are going to do, don’t come back because you have no home. Her greatest effort in raising me was that I never become a Thug. Chauvinistic young males as early as fourteen believe that there is nothing a Woman can tell them I was one. This a fallout of a Fatherless home, and so begins a lot of the Social Chaos mentioned earlier. In conclusion it just occurred to me that the reason for your needs to be a Player is because you yourself probably grew up in a Fatherless home. Males who grow up in a stable family environment knows the value of two Parents. A child needs a role model to break the Generational Cycle, an adult who will show them a better way. For some children that better way will be a new way of thinking.

P.S. Growing up in a Fatherless Home did not corrupt me, been Married for 37 years.

 

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