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Once you stop Learning, you start Dying((Albert Einstein)

I consider myself no more than a Scholar in the School of life, life itself is a constant learning process. I have patterned my Life by learning from other people’s mistakes in life. I believe that if mankind had Learned from the first  people who walked this Earth, we would be far more advanced than where we are now. The way we interact with God, in our Relationships with our Mates, our Neighbors and the World as a whole.

I am not the most Religious Person in the World I don’t go to Church every Sunday, (the Temple is within you) but my Faith is stronger than many who do. Why? Because I believe in the fundamental Laws of the Ten Commandments and that Jesus is the Greatest Man who have

walked this Earth. My least favorite people in the World are Confrontational People who can take a simple discussion or altercation to the next level.( Never argue with stupid People, they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience- Mark Twain)

The same Bellicose Nature have ended many Marriages, many Friendships and broken many Families. Life is so short and unpredictable with Diseases and early Death, that’s why I live every moment as if it were my last, (Live as if you were to die tomorrow- Learn as if you’re to live forever. Mahatma Ghandi) Each Day I awake I give thanks.

Each day I get behind the wheel and make it back home to my Bed, I say thank you Lord, and say a little Prayer for those who didn’t. That’s why I write about Safe Driving. I write about Parenting because I was a Parent worse Nightmare, I don’t think that anyone should go through what I put my Mother through as an Adolescent and a Teenager. There is no doubt in my mind that if my Teenage Life had continued into Adulthood the outcomes would have been of Catastrophic.

That is why I put my Life on these pages, to avoid Catastrophe in just one young Life. I am a firm Believer that if you have lived long enough to get Old and you have nothing in the way of Learning and Teaching to pass on to the next Generation. Then you truly have not Lived, only existed. I truly believe that your past do not determine who you are, but instead prepared you for who you are to become. Also that it is easier to build strong Children than to repair broken Men. Finally, Wisdom is not a Product of Schooling, but of the lifelong attempt to acquire it.( Albert Einstein)

Life hack refers to any trick, shortcut, skill, or novelty method that increases productivity and efficiency, in all walks of life.

Life, Parenting And Relationships

On The Axis

 

 

Coordinates of Life

It doesn’t matter whether you turned 18 in the 1800s or 1972 or 2000 we all went through the same doubts, insecurity and confusion. We are not Kids anymore yet we are not Adults in the true sense, young Adults maybe, some of us never crossed the Threshold. Crossing over into Adulthood is a big step, it means taking responsibility for everything from here on in. If you choose to use Drugs or Alcohol be aware that for each action there is a reaction, whether Behavioural Psychological or Health and they all have Consequences.

 

I started smoking Cigarettes at fourteen fifty years later COPD, Emphysema, Marijuana at fourteen, Inertia all through High School, it distracted me from Shakespeare and put me in Edgar Allan Poe’s World, Beer at fourteen Alcoholic at nineteen. Worst of all I was a sneak, living under a Christian Woman’s Roof. Luckily I was able to overcome all but the Cigarettes by twenty one, yeah but at what Price wanting to prove to myself that I was a Man I blew the learning years. By the time that I realized the Importance of a College Education the Window of opportunity was closed. Luckily I broke away from my influences before twenty one, I could have been a Bum for the rest of my Life. In Life your associations picks you up or drag you down, choose them wisely. Don’t be a Sheep in the Herd, be the Shepard.

 

Peer Pressure is worse than any Addiction it makes you do things that you ordinarily wouldn’t  have even thought of on your own, don’t fall for the Trap, if you love me or if you want to be with me. In High School we had a saying ” instead of pulling themselves out of the Hole they are in a Junkie will pull you in”, part of making the Transition into Adulthood is being your own Person ( Individuality) then there is Responsibility. To me Responsibility is the hardest part about Being an Adult, being an Adult means that now you have to fend for yourself( provide, care and protect yourself) that is why you should not be in a hurry to agitate your Parents with bad behavior, while they are putting a Roof over your head and food in your Stomach, they have your best interest at Heart.

 

Ask anyone in College who are working their way through School. Fending for yourself without a Proper Education is scrounging Bottom. Don’t be in such a hurry to be Kicked out on your own. Most Parents will support their kids late into their twenties and some Beyond. I once lived next door to a fifty years old Man who lived off his seventy five years old Mother. He lost his Driving Privileges through DUI. Not being able to Drive himself to Work made him a Dependent, he wasn’t even ambitious enough to take any job within walking distance. Being a Dependent all your Life is choosing not to cross the Threshold. Remember the word Responsibility.

 

The awkward years are difficult for anyone, remember childhood isn’t far behind and the challenges of Adulthood is right in front of you, take time relishing your youth, while making Bold smart steps into Adulthood. As soon as you look around the years are gone and you are now your Parents Reflection, a Parent yourself with the Headaches of raising a Child who knows everything, I was that Child. At fourteen I knew everything including how to get stoned on weed, who did it hurt but me, who suffered from Inertia, me, what did I gained, nothing, what did I loose everything, the chance of being a Scholar and an Author.

 

Instead I did what I had to do to make a Living to support the Family I could not wait to have, Finding out fifty years later that I like sharing my Thoughts and a Vivid Imagination is an essential for Writing. To be eighteen again I wouldn’t have  blown precious youth in hurrying to grow old. I would have taken  time to smell the Roses before I became addicted to Coffee and Nicotine. At the end of writing this Blog I just Learned that Teens Smoking went up 80% . If Jumping off the San Francisco Bridge was Trending, would you be there. Vaping is Trending please don’t Jump, its just as bad as Nicotine or worse, it gives you Popcorn Lunges. Chart your Course follow your chosen Path because the Axis of Life fades like Footprints in the Sand. Making the right choices dictates the rest of your Life, Eighteen is your fork in the Road choose wisely.

 

 

Insights from Alice Cooper

 

Lines form on my face and hands

Lines form from the ups and downs

I’m in the middle without any plans

I’m a boy and I’m a man

I’m eighteen

And I don’t know what I want

Eighteen

I just don’t know what I want

Eighteen

I gotta get away

I gotta get out of this place

I’ll go runnin’ in outer space

Oh yeah

I got a

Baby’s brain and an old man’s heart

Took eighteen years to get this far

Don’t always know what I’m talkin’ about

Feels like I’m livin’ in the middle of doubt

‘Cause I’m

Eighteen

I get confused every day

Eighteen

I just don’t know what to say

Eighteen

I gotta get away

Lines form on my face and my hands

Lines form on the left and right

I’m in the middle

The middle of life

I’m a boy and I’m a man

I’m eighteen and I like it

Yes I like it

Oh I like it

Love it

Like it

Love it

Eighteen!

Eighteen!

Eighteen!

Eighteen and I like it


Songwriters: Alice Cooper / Dennis Dunaway